We spend a lot of time around here discussing the best places to meet women, how to approach them and start conversations, what to say and do to close the deal, etc. But all that’s just icing on the cake once you nail the Holy Grail: getting women to chase you. Here are the top 10 ways to make it happen.
Do this right, and she won’t be able to stop thinking about you.
Bottom line: Suspense and mystery are foolproof ways of creating attraction. Making those feelings of attraction so strong that she can’t resist them is the best way to get her to chase you
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No.5 Get inside her head
To make women chase you, you need to make women think about you instead of the other way around. One way to make that happen easily is this: Decline or ignore any first advances or invitations you receive from a woman. Even better, make yourself look busy and in demand. Tell her, “Oh, you want to hang out on Friday? Geez, I don't know. I have this other thing going on, and I don’t know if she’ll let me out of it.”Do this right, and she won’t be able to stop thinking about you.
No.4 Test her
This step is crucial. To get women to chase you, you have to turn the tables. That means making women qualify themselves to you. In other words, take power in the situation by framing yourself as the selector. It can be as simple as asking, “What makes you more interesting than other girls I’ve dated?” Or, “What are three things a guy would like about you, and please don't say 'looks.'” Do this in a sarcastic, joking way, and women will be drawn into the conversation, guaranteed.
No.3 Master Cocky & Funny
This one’s basic. I tell men all the time that humor is the fastest path to success with women, and it holds true for scientific reasons. Fact is, making a woman laugh when you meet her is the most powerful way to make her keep thinking about you and want to spend more time with you. So make a woman laugh, and no matter how unattainable she seems, she’ll be biologically drawn to you because of the positive feelings you create in her -- feelings she just can't ignore.No.2 Hold on to your cards
I love this tip because it’s the simplest way to get women to do all the work. Basically, when you first meet a woman, don’t be an open book. You can do this by simply not introducing yourself until she asks your name or by using the power of “maybe.” Tell her, “Listen, I have to get back to my friends, but maybe I'll see you later.”Bottom line: Suspense and mystery are foolproof ways of creating attraction. Making those feelings of attraction so strong that she can’t resist them is the best way to get her to chase you
No.1 Stop doing the chasing
Duh, right? If you’re constantly hitting on everything that moves -- throwing out stale pickup lines and nervous chatter -- then you’ll never master the skills needed to truly get women to chase you. And, by the way, know why they call it “hitting” on a woman? Because most of the time it’s just plain painful for her. So the first step is to stop doing it, period. Only then can you stop following women around like a love-sick puppy -- like every other guy is doing -- and start building the mystery and tension that attracts them.
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