Getting a girlfriend is an important business in a man's life. Unless you are famous, extremely rich or a male model you've probably found that it's not easy to make a beautiful woman your girlfriend. You may believe fate will throw the woman of your dreams into your path. It's possible, but you could be waiting a long time. As with most things in life good things tend to come to those who actually seek them.
Here are a few pointers to get you on your way to finding a girlfriend...
Firstly, if you want to get a girlfriend you have to actually meet girls. Look for ways to get them in your life. Go out, meet people, join clubs, and get involved in activities where you're likely to meet girls. Make friends with everyone, but especially people who know a lot of women. Once you gain a wider social circle you will find yourself coming into contact with more girls. You'll also be better equipped in social situations.
Having good social skills and confidence are essential if you are going to approach women in bars and nightclubs. Girls you meet in these situations will be more critical of how you come across - they are being hit on by a lot of guys and will make fast, sometimes harsh assessments. You can learn all about approaching girls and how you should steer your conversations in our dating bible Magic Bullets.
If you can get a girl on a date it means she's interested in you. Mess it up and she won't be for much longer. Don't make the date too formal (dinner = bad idea, cinema = worst) and try to make physical contact with her as much as possible. Ideally go somewhere that has some form of entertainment that can take the pressure off your conversation and go to a few different venues; it will make her feel like she's known you for a long time
Here are a few pointers to get you on your way to finding a girlfriend...
Firstly, if you want to get a girlfriend you have to actually meet girls. Look for ways to get them in your life. Go out, meet people, join clubs, and get involved in activities where you're likely to meet girls. Make friends with everyone, but especially people who know a lot of women. Once you gain a wider social circle you will find yourself coming into contact with more girls. You'll also be better equipped in social situations.
Having good social skills and confidence are essential if you are going to approach women in bars and nightclubs. Girls you meet in these situations will be more critical of how you come across - they are being hit on by a lot of guys and will make fast, sometimes harsh assessments. You can learn all about approaching girls and how you should steer your conversations in our dating bible Magic Bullets.
If you can get a girl on a date it means she's interested in you. Mess it up and she won't be for much longer. Don't make the date too formal (dinner = bad idea, cinema = worst) and try to make physical contact with her as much as possible. Ideally go somewhere that has some form of entertainment that can take the pressure off your conversation and go to a few different venues; it will make her feel like she's known you for a long time
If you can steer your way through all of that then congratulations - you have a girlfriend, regular sex, and maybe a dream of eternal happiness. It's not a process that's easy so don't get down when you get it wrong. Learn your lessons, improve, and move onto the next lucky lady
