How To Love Yourself?

Before you love somebody,you have to love yourself first.Then automatically you will know how to love others.Here are 10 tips on how to love yourself.  

1.  Stop all criticism: 
Criticism never changes a thing.Refuse to criticize yourself.Accept yourself exactly as you are.Everybody changes.When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative.When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.


2.  Don't scare yourself: 
Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts.It's a dreadful way to live.Find a mental image that gives you pleasure (mine is yellow roses), and immediately switch your scary thought to a pleasure thought.


3.  Be gentle and kind and patient:  
 Be gentle with yourself.Be kind to yourself.Be patient 
with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking.Treat yourself as you would someone you 
really loved.


4.  Be kind to your mind:   
Self-hatred is only hating your own thoughts.Don't hate yourself for having the thoughts.Gently change the thoughts.


5.  Praise yourself:   
Criticism breaks the inner spirit.Praise builds it up.Praise yourself as much as you can.Tell yourself how well you are doing with every little thing.  


6.  Support yourself:   
Find ways to support yourself.Reach out to friends,and allow them to help you.It is being strong to ask for help when you need it.


7.  Be loving to your negatives:  
 Acknowledge that you created them to fulfill a need.Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill those needs.  So. lovingly release the old negative patterns.


8.  Take care of your body:   
Learn about nutrition.What kind of fuel does your body need to have optimum energy and vitality?Learn about exercise.What kind of exercise can you enjoy?Cherish and revere the temple you live in.


9.  Mirror work:  
Look into your own eyes often.Express this growing sense of love you have for yourself.Forgive yourself looking into the mirror.Talk to your parents looking into the mirror.Forgive them, too.At least once a day, say: "I love you, I really love you!"


10.  LOVE YOURSELF - DO IT NOW!   
Don't wait until you get well or lose the weight, or get the new job, or find the new relationship.Begin NOW - do the best you can.

Broke up Advice

BRAKEUP ADVICE....

1. Make a clean break. 

After you’ve broken up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, don’t talk on the phone, meet for coffee, or text each other. Even if you’re thinking of getting back together, make sure you take at least three months off. This breakup advice is about finding your self-identity again – figuring out who you are apart from your relationship.

2. Avoid the temptation to get revenge. 

Whether your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend cheated on you, borrowed money and didn’t pay it back, or stole your pet– resist the temptation to get revenge. Getting him back only prolongs your connection, and you need to move on in order to stay happy! “The best revenge is living well,” said someone.

3. Accept that he or she wasn’t “the one.” 

This breakup advice is so easy to give, and so difficult to accept! It’s hard to see that you split up for a reason, and it’s likely in your best interests to accept that the relationship is over and move on. Try listening to songs for broken hearts — they may help you heal.

4. Learn how to let go of someone you love. 

It’s inevitable: you have to learn to accept that you’ve lost someone or something you love without letting it cripple your emotions or make you bitter! In fact, letting go is something you’ll have to do more and more as you get older – and it only gets easier if you accept and even embrace it. To stay happy after splitting up, remember that everything in life is temporary.

5. Take control – you are powerful! 

This break up advice is effective for all painful things in life: you can’t change how you feel, but you can control what you focus on. Instead of focusing on your pain, grief, and loss – mourn it briefly, and then focus on other things. Do you want to stay happy after splitting up? Then think about the great things in your life, the people who love you, your hobbies, your pets, your job. If you don’t enough good things to focus on, consider a few life changes. Read Quips and Tips for Achieving Your Goals!

Hear this song and feel it...Dont worry be happy

If you have any questions or tips on staying happy after splitting up, please comment below!

How To Attract GIRLS...

If you know how to attract girls, then chasing women won’t be necessary as they will come to you. When a woman is chasing you instead of the other way around, it is much easier to be relaxed and have a good time instead of concentrating on what to do next.

So what attracts people, and more specifically girls ? 

-Things that are out of the ordinary. If you blend in with the rest of the world, then no one will ever notice you walking down the street, or in any location for that matter. How do most people blend ? By following what everyone else does and this leads to catastrophic results when trying to attract women.

Being a follower is boring and speaks a lot about your personality.

- It shows that you are insecure to try new things and that you don’t want attention. Now the trick to being noticed is not to dress up in bright yellow colors, but to add one interesting item to your physical appearance. There are a few guidelines to selecting the proper attire that will attract women without making you look like a fool.

First steps to being more attractive.
-First, take into consideration what kind of social setting you will be in. If you’re going to a club, then you can go all out with outlandish clothing and accessories. However, if you’re going to the library, it would be more effective to carefully choose one single attention drawing accessory.

For clubs, keep in mind that you want to look different than everyone else. If everyone else is dressed up with expensive clothing, then wearing something cheap will work better. You’ll automatically be classified as the ‘guy who doesn’t care’, which can be very attractive.

If you’re at a place where people are dressed like bums, then feel free to dress up a little more and you’ll automatically be seen as ‘the only classy guy’ in the place.

Sometimes clothing itself can make a large enough difference, however accessories can further improve your magnetism throughout the day. Something unique that represents you is the ideal thing. Let’s say you enjoy biking, then you could have a necklace with a bicycle on it for instance. Then, in a social situation, people will notice and comment on your accessories.

The more out-of-the-ordinary your accessories are, the more you will get noticed. 

-However, you must be able to continue the conversation and match the boldness of your accessory with your personality. Once you learned how to attract girls, you’ll need to learn how to keep them.

The attitude that you have is more important than all the clothes, money and looks in the world.

- Its cliche, but personality is more important to women than looks. In fact, there are a few secret techniques that will make you irresistible to women regardless of appearance. One of the most effective techniques is called “Cocky / Funny” in the the Double Your Dating book by David Deangelo. It teaches all the fundamental and advanced ways on how to ATTRACT girls and keep them attracted to you permanently.

Quickest way to attract boys

1. walk straight , head up and be proud 

– why ? good looking or not boys tend to look the way you WALK – just by walking you are sending message to boys watching you at the back and infront. Yes it is true – thats the first thing they can see – they wont notice your face and eyes by far – so walking straight is so effective on a quick way to attract men

boys secret – when boys walk behind a straight walking girl he will be interest to see your face .

2. Talking to a boy or men 

– talk at his level , dont pretend to be too intelligent for him ( boys ego ) , let him open a topic first to talk about

 – then when he does, think twice but fast on how you will respond to that topic.

Why think twice and fast ? Boys tend to rate how fast your brain responds and how accurate your responses are. Make him get what he wants to hear – dont let him listen to a teacher he already have one, just the right answer to his questions is enough – if you do this he will ask for more.

boys secret – boys is trying to test his skill in communicating too . Let him practice.

3. Men can tell if you are true to yourself

 – say what you feel so he will learn to understand you. Men dont like girls that keep on hiding things from them. If you want to please men then you should show the real you.

5 tips say NO to SEX !

• When you are saying NO, use a firm voice that shows you are serious.
• If your significant other tries to break up with you, then let them. A true relationship isn't based on sex.
• Don't have sex just because someone wants you to. It is as much your choice as it is theirs.
• Do not drink alcohol under any circumstances. Alcohol eliminates inhibitions and makes sex with possibly undesirable partners vastly easier.
• Don't think you can't ever have sex, you can when YOU are ready.

p.s:If you don't think about the consequences of your actions, your life could be changed forever.